UNIQUELY COMMON

uniquely common....

That is what I am. That is what actually everyone is. Some of us have an impression that we are just too common. Some think they are absolutely unique. Both of which aren’t facts.

Since ages I used to think that I am just very common. Lately I reckon that I am unique. Finally now I realize that I am commonly unique or say uniquely common...

I am not irreplaceable, none actually is. You can find many who can do what all I do. They might be even better than me. And may be even I am capable of replacing someone else. So this whole thing makes all of us common.

But you can only replace someone but can’t completely fill up the vacuum left by them. Some things we share only with few. Feelings, compatibility, rapport, frequency, affinity etc very from person to person, making each one of us unique.

Wondering why I am messing up with this topic??

I always had this fear that my friends may forget me if they find someone else like me. Or may be someday my sister will take over my position in my family. These things may very well be true. But now I make out that we all are replaceable (be happy unless you and your boss are replaceable you will not be promoted)... replaceable only at few dimensions of life. You cannot be unique to your working arena, similarly even when you are the common family post of say husband you are still unique to your wife. Irreplaceable at least to her hopefully :p

So now I know that I have my own uniqueness in my family and in my friends circle. And I’ll not be sad if someday my sis occupies my space or if my friends share similar vibrancy with someone else. Because I know such things will happen only in my absence and its better to be replaced than forcing our loved ones to live in the vacuum left by us...However unique that emptiness may be..