Problem! it is....!?

Starting problem

So here I am struggling to pen down my thoughts. No, I am not trying to make this article look interesting by giving it an extra thinking. It’s just that I have a starting problem. [I wonder if this is genetic, nice topic of research for budding scientists :D]

Coming to problems.. they can be grouped broadly into two types. First group includes the problems that really exist and the second one comprises those which are usually self-imagined, self-created. The list coming under the second group are more harming than those in the first one. Why I say this?? You’ll get to know as you read along..

I group: Real problems. Which we have to face, no other go. Solutions can be found to these if real effort is put in and bit of luck does matter here. Like if you are born in a poor family, you can’t help it, you have to go through all that despair and pain that poverty brings along. But with efforts people have been able to raise above their levels. Few have reached places where people born in already flourishing families still dream of reaching some day. Luck plays a role here, as itsn’t actually in our hands to choose our parents our background, their family status..even the people with genetic disorders, mental disabilities fall in to this category. Because for no faults of them they have to go through a lot of dismay. Still brave hearts have been coming into light, who have become a source of inspiration even for the healthy and fortunate. So when your problem falls into this group, there is every chance for finding a solution or at least a hope of reducing the severity of the problem. We just need to have a fighting spirit and self confidence that the so called problem is nothing before man’s will power.

II group: Very harming I say. Self created or self imagined problems find their place here. These things aren’t any problems as such. They are usually cooked up things, usually people who always like being surrounded by some or other mess complain of them. If you see my starting problem also falls into this category. But at least I was able to overcome it, but there are who struggle with it life long. And what a crap is that, just for that “how to start” phobia people take many of their hidden talents unnoticed to their graves. Not taking proper care of our health, finding pleasure in drinking, smoking also are self invited problems. Which can be very well avoided, only if we want to. Well when you are very well aware of the outcome then why do you start complaining of the problem when it’s the actual time of facing it. Why do you or your family people doubt the medical science when it could do no good to your lung cancer which comes along as a package with your cigarette pack..or be it hepatic failure accompanying your bottles with the best tasting drink. Rash driving, laziness to fulfill responsibilities, not acting at proper time, not preparing for the test on next day etc are few of the random problems comprising this list.

So as you see these things aren’t actually problems, they are actually self-invited events.

Its better you face their results rather than complaining about them.

And yeah if your problem falls into the first group then my best wishes to overcome them and coming to second group its better if you keep that list short. You’ll be happy and so the people around you..