Thoughts on year end..

So finally one more year comes to an end. It is just like few days back; we were playing antakshri and the over enthusiastic me threw my sis off the chair while waiting for this very year to start, which is about to end in just one more day!

To sum it up, lets go through a list of insights into life received in this year. ( I am arranging them in the order of months received.)

1.  A new hair-do can add up a lot to your personality. So even if you have a really bad hair fall, do go for it. Your hair growth will dramatically improve, you wouldn't be left with any regrets.
2. Time and again it will be proved that nothing goes according to plans. So gear up to face any kind of situation thrown at you. Life throws bouncers at you, usually on the days that matter the most!
3. Few weeks just pass of at the speed of the days, you will realize it much later.
4. And even after realization you knowingly spend another few weeks as waste as a boring Sunday.
5. Depression sucks, but when it strikes don't shy off to take some help. It will only do you good, and save a lot of time. We all go through it at some point or the other in life. So stop alienating yourself. Speak to the nearest Doc you find around in your town. You will thank me later for this one! :P
6. There comes a time when you find it hard to remember your own birth date. Yeah, that is a very good sign of growing old. ;)
7. Getting a tattoo feels real cool. You can conveniently deal with the bit of pain you experience while getting inked.
8. Independence day does hold great significance if you break through the things holding you back. You will truly experience freedom then.
9. Confused priorities in work life can screw with your peace of mind. Sort of the things at the earliest.
10. The timid rat in you roars like a lion when dealing with issues concerning your family.
11. Birthdays get real special when the clock finally strikes 12'. 
12. Few trips happen by chance, and introduces you to a completely new side of self.
13. Your mom cannot always be the solo hero; without the cape, time comes when the tables turn.
14. No matter how many men you come across, none can match up with your dad! 8)
15. Getting high doesn't do you any good. Things which you can't feel or say being sober are better left unsaid and unattended. :-|
16. Non- veg tastes good most of the times because of the spices used , so we can skip the meat part and stick to the spices; replacing it with snack items like chat! :-*
17. Friendship does get complicated at times. And you plan doing weird things to keep it the same.
18. Exercise makes you fit. Staying fit needs a lot more of effort.
19. Getting married or staying single still remains a topic which needs a good debate.
20. Practice makes you perfect in most of the things. :P
21. If you keep pushing your health beyond the limits it can accommodate, be ready to get pushed on to your bed for few good days.
22. Meeting up with friends is always fun. But don't expect them to understand everything you say, they weren't in your shoes to get your facts that quick.
23. Not everyone feels responsible for the work they do.
24. Be good. Do good. Stop stressing yourself about the rest.
25. Another year comes to an end. Another starts in few hours.  

Few wise, few stupid and few absurd insights above are! :P

Wishing each one of you a Very Happy 2016..

Girl with the Yin-Yang tatoo!

In a nutshell, Chinese Yin Yang symbols represent perfect balance. Seemingly, the whole of Chinese philosophy stems from the concept of Yin and Yang - opposites interacting and supposedly the seed of all things. For example, evil results from an imbalance in Yin and Yang, and good comes from the two being in harmonic balance. This symbol represents the primal opposing but complementary forces found in all things in the universe.

 The above is what google offers you when you search for the meaning of yin-yang tattoo.

As far as i am concerned this tattoo signifies that..

• I do keep a track of my crazy teenage wishes and have enough guts to make them happen, at least a few.
• I do not mind being the odd one out in the crowd I move along with.
• I can manage those confused staring looks i get from known and unknown people alike, when they happen to look at my wrist! ( I had a minor bike accident around the same time I got my tattoo done, most of my friends where more worried about my tattoo rather than the wounds I endured. And in one incident a hospital nurse thought it to be a reaction to some medical test i had taken for some disease! )
• I am going to have a real interesting time explaining about my tattoo to my Professors at work place and my future in laws! 

• Finally, that I do end up taking few decisions which put me in great wonder later. A proof that the little craziness in me is still alive, of which I am proud of! ;)

cheers!

Adam and Eve!

Gender discrimination has been a topic of discussion since many ages, gathering lot more significance in recent times. We see women fighting for equality with men in different fields of life. But this very idea of equality between the genders seems to be no more than an idiocy! Equality equation doesn't seem to be valid between the two genders.

Wonder why do I say this?
 Lets start from the beginning of life to explain my point of view.

So we all know, that we owe our existence to our parents i.e Mom and Dad.

My mom has been preparing herself anatomically to bear me from a very tender age of early teens. Going through days of physical agony and mood swings each month of every single year.

Later when I was conceived she had to endure nine months duration of physical discomfort and emotional roller coaster ride. With few good days and many bad ones, to keep me safe and alive inside her womb.

And the time finally arrived for me to make a grand entry into this world, for which she had to experience the pain ranking highest on the measurement scale.

After my arrival she was again looked down for getting a female child into the family ( read by the oldies). Even on being fully aware that she had no power in deciding the gender of her child.

Nevertheless I am relieved that I didn't take away my mom's life to start my own. Maternal mortality being high in India, many mothers die in the process of bringing their new ones into this world.

But has anyone heard about Paternal mortality rate?

How many fathers give up their life annually for the birth of their progeny?

The answer being zero to none.

But even after all this I was supposed to take up my father's surname, representing his family and not my mom's. Reducing her to just my portal of entry on this planet.

 My father too played a important role for my being, but not equal to my mom's role. I can never bring the equality function between their importance.
I love them equally, don't get confused between love and the role importance for my birth.

So all these debates and fights for the equality between the genders is a lame idea.

Working for the same amount of office hours, receiving equal pay, freedom to roam about with out any fear at midnight, going on solo trips etc isn't sufficient to make the two genders equal.

Male and Female genders can be equal to each other only when..

• Men start preparing themselves physically to bear a child, when they too experience the monthly cycles, carry the child for nine months and become a medium of entry of new lives into this world.
• All the educational institutions have seats reserved for men and even the public transport facilities arrange seats especially for them.
• They have freedom to express their emotions and aren't looked upon only for their strength and as a role to protect the opposite gender.
• The eligibility of the bridegroom is decided on his looks and culinary skills, but not on his fat income or his riches.

• The families' pride doesn't depend only on the virginity of their female child but also on the male members.
• They experience the fear and terror of being physically and sexually assaulted by women.
• When they lose the freedom of answering their nature calls at any public place according to their wish.
• Stop dressing provocatively and don't freely roam about in their boxers.
• Start keeping fasts to prolong the life of their wives'.

• Only when Hindu Goddesses are worshiped on par with the male Gods and the place of Goddesses Laxmi isn't at the feet of Lord Vishnu.
• Wives' of few Gods aren't referred to just as their Consorts.
• Islam, Christianity, Sikhism have something as "Daughter of God" and Female saints to follow.

Unless all these changes take place, there is no point in fighting for equality. As we women can work for the same hours as men, can bring up children as single parent, join army, police force, fight with goons, and look after every need of the family without men's assistance.

But men will never be able to carry out the important life processes for which females are specially evolved for.

By now it is clear that women can replace men for a greater extent in the society, and the probability for men to replace women is comparatively less. 
( Women need just the male germ cells in creation of life,whereas men need a whole new organ plus the female germ cells for the replacement! Even in the cases of in-vitro fertilization you need a surrogate mother :P )

To put it in simple english, there's no point in trying to match up with guys, when we very well know that they can never reach up to us.

Intelligence lies in staying at our respective positions and doing our designed job with the best efforts. 
By believing in smart work, leave few chores exclusive to men. Don't bring up the gender issues, to prevent them from getting a notion of their gender evolution being truly insignificant! :P

So lets start pretending as if the two genders complete each other. ;)

Cheers!! :)

Listen.. Realize.. Reflect..

Listen..

No one completes you.

Waiting for someone to come and give meaning to your life,

Is nothing but to demean yourself.

There is no prince charming,

and gone are the days of the damsel in distress.

Realize..

People join and leave your journey.

We all are passengers here, with different destination points.

The terminus doesn’t change depending on any specific person; being next you,

It stays the same.

None have similar haven.

Reflect..

When your paths cross for a while, take things as they come.

Do not expect any lifelong companionship.

You aren’t born for anyone,

Neither is someone made for you.

You don’t owe your living to anyone.

Accept..

There is no point in behaving as a sub-ordinate.

You were not born just to continue someone’s clan, community or religion.

Rise above this idiocy.

Make your own living

And take proud in what you are.

Practice..

To spread smiles and let that first smile start from your face.

Leave the lives of others' better than you found.

Do not toil yourself for others yearning.

Figure out..

How to celebrate life.

Don’t keep waiting for an accomplice.

Gather enough bucks and kickoff on a solo journey,

To the most astounding and breathtaking destinations this land has to offer.

But not to confer it to some greedy folks, who fix a price to take you as their family member.

Prioritize to..

Be your own best friend; enjoy your company.

Nothing is going to last long with you except for your solitude.

Do not diminish your vision to please others.

Never..

Fake happiness; or take anything for granted.

Show up your anger and gracefully accept your shortcomings.

But don’t let any of these effect your core.

Stay balanced; Stay happy!!

Cheers!! :)

Anonymity

so there are many perks of being anonymous, the most important being that you will not be judged by the people you know.

will straight away get to the point of concern now. so i'm growing old, the proof being my birthday just the next day, next hour to be more precise. birthdays no more excite me, it has become a struggle to remember it and to actually feel as some special day. i have also realised that my birthday falls on a very odd day, no doubt people find it difficult to remember. recently i too have joined that set of group.
anyways the point we are here to discuss is what actually have i done till date and what do i expect myself doing in the near future.

one of the most important, thought provoking discussion which i had with my grandfather some 15years back is still fresh in my mind. the topic was what human life is worth of. every other living creature on this planet is driven by three main acts, they being - eat, sleep and reproduce. if your life revolves only around these three, you better be some other animal as you being human is of no good use to this planet.

eating and sleeping are something which comes naturally to us from the day we are born. coming to the third one - reproduction. the main aim of reproduction was to prevent their specie from extinction and carry on their existence.
 so are we facing any danger of human extinction right now? no.
are there any chances of facing that situation in near future? no.

that brings us to the point that reproduction isn't that necessary for all the humans. we can very well do with out it. being in india reproduction is directly related with marriage. according to the society norms you have to be married to reproduce and once you are married, there is no other go you 'have' to reproduce at any cost. if not your marriage will be termed as a failed one. the advantage of being in india is that the female will be the first and most of the times the only person to be blamed for having no children. you can never question a man's fertility, ability etc etc on this land.
the above discussion is more of a generalized one.

now coming to me. do i actually want to get married?
when i am too high with positive emotions its a 'yes'.
when i get full negative vibes its a 'no'.
and when i think with a stable mind without getting emotional and being in full senses the answer is a big 'no'.
i can live without a marriage. it isn't something like oxygen which is must for my survival.
i haven't come to this decision because i never liked anybody or the other way round. i have met very wonderful people in my life. who i really adore and feel fortunate enough to have met them in my lifetime.
its just that everything feels temporary. the starting days are full dreamy, ecstatic, full of energy and what not.
but later on it becomes a struggle which you have to face each and everyday. sucking out happiness from yours and the opposite person's life. love can make things easier but what if you lack it? you may or may not get the choice of marrying someone you love. lucky enough if you marry the love of your life there is no guarantee that your love will only help you to improve. if it starts to hinder your growth and becomes a danger to your personal space then you will no longer want to be in such relation.
so getting married should not be a decision you make just because you have come of age. its the most important turning point of your life. it should be dealt with utmost seriousness and care. hasty decisions may make you repent your entire life.

and the latest additions to the things i want to do in my life is.
i don't want to have children. ( in case if i ever get married and no indian woman will let me marry her son if i happen to disclose my decision )
earlier i thought that when from the past 16yrs, 5-7 days every month when i have to go through physical and emotional turmoil only to prepare me for this specific job, if i don't accomplish it all my struggle will go vain.
but that does'nt bother me anymore. its ok if i don't eat the final fruit after planting a tree.
there are already many children on this planet who need love and affection. and i don't want to limit myself from sharing it with just 2 or 3 kids.
don't get into a idea that i'm trying to be the next mother teresa, actually i'm being selfish here.
having children makes you a lot more selfish, selfless, possessive and we very well know what a mother(from any part of the world) can endure for the sake of her children. so i just want to save myself from such high and deep emotions, even if it means that i lead an incomplete life, having not experienced all the relations.
well this way i will be able to share my love with many, though that may not be a real deep love but that will do for me. there will be no constraints or strings attached to me. i will not have to fear about the impact my decisions will have on other lives.

the other important outcome of the above two decisions will be that i will not have to leave my home, my parents home to be specific. i can be there for them as long as i can. i will not have the guilt of ignoring my responsibilities of being the elder child.

well thats the plan for now. don't actually know how far i will be able to carry that.convincing my parents for this will be a major task but just wish everything turns out good..
just a few wishes. may sound insane, but can't actually help. it may seem as if i am day dreaming but as there is no tax leveid on dreams, we have the freedom of having as many number of dreams as we wish to have. my attempt isn't of standing out from the rest or to prove that i am unique. i am just trying to be little practical and logical. true enough for the tagline 'mind over matter'.

so here's wishing good luck to me and happy birthday too ;)

cheers!! :)

love actually is..

You can love someone cause they make you a better person 

or

You can love someone who treasures the type of person you right now are.

You can love someone for giving you immense freedom to grow 

or

You can love someone who behaves just like a kid to have you all by themself.

You can love someone for giving you your own space 

or

You can love someone who no longer has anything personal, you make up their each and everything.

You can love someone for knowing your potential and pushing you to achieve it 

or

You can love someone who knows your potential but doesnt want to push it harder on you.

You can love someone who isnt bothered about any of your silly trivial matters 

or

You can love someone who shows the same interest in any of your  senseless matters as in anything important.

You can love someone for not giving much importance to how you look 

or 

You can love someone who wants you to look your best everday.

You can love someone for being bold enough to share their feelings with you

or

You can love someone for the nervousness and self doubt they have about being worthy enough for you.

You can love someone for making you a strong person to take on the world

or

You can love someone who makes you go weak in your knees.

You can love someone for giving you a bright future

or

You can love someone who lightens up your present.

You can love someone who has seen more of the world than you and is your best guide

or

You can love someone who hasn't seen life as closely as you and help them appreciate it

You can love someone who isn't bothered about the distance between you two
or
You can love someone who is far away but never makes you realise about the distance that actualy is present.

You can love someone who isnt good at expressing themself
or
You can love someone who is very dramatic, making things appear as they are right out of some movie.

You can love someone who makes you a matured and sensible person
or
You can love someone who again turns you into a hopless romantic teenager.

You can love someone who gives importance to the quality than the quantity of time spent with you
or
You can love someone who stays up all night to hear all your nonsense chatter.

You can love someone who makes you a important part of their life
or
You can love someone who makes you their life.

Which love will you chose among them?
Are you really worthy of any of them?

The right choice will be
to love yourself more and do what makes you happy.
People love you for their own selfish reasons
Don' t get trapped!
Liberate yourself.

Cheers!!

Damaged soul

Young sweet bubbly soul it was
Full of life and zeal
Just few years old on this planet
Slowly learning the ways of living
Finally time came to face the outside world
With no one to look over
That's the way you grow up

Days passed and it got adjusted to the norms
Making new relations, sharing laughter
Unaware of the evil souls looming around
At times you are too young to know what's good and bad
If it is your fault or some one else's
First blow to its poor soul
Which left it shaken and damaged
But time is tricky.. it heals everything by fading your memory

You get used to the ways of living without any effort
And it just went with the flow
Again unaware of different forms in which darkness can enter
Which will rip apart its soul, again, again and again
And though time is tricky, few wounds cannot be healed even with time.
They loom over you and your damaged soul
Everything seems mere a joke
Only soltitude offers you solace

But emotions, they run high and wild
Taking you to the paths which you decided never to take
Love heals, none can deny
Yet few wounds remain so sour even love fails
You just wait and try to make sense with what is left

But old memories are like uninvited guests
Which frequently knock your door
Pushing you back in the valley of sorrow
Giving you new bruises on their each visit
Stomping and pounding all the little hopes you braved to build
Your past forms a veil against the beautiful future you wish to see
You prefer no company in this journey now
Cutting down chances of any new thrashes

All your precautions go in vain, and someone does manage to enter your forbidden zone
And for a moment, you live in a dream
But soon reality hits and you fall on your face, hitting hard

Again try building a new fence around self
Making sure this time no amount of any emotion can break in
Nothing lasts forever..no love, no hatred, no emotion
Walked in alone, will make a similar exit
There's lot to learn , lot to do

Love can heal, we very well know
but we got used to being damaged souls

LOVE vs LIKE

so they say we fall in love, making it clear it is unintentional as no one falls willingly.

love just happens, may be with a person, a book, a place or a subject you study. you don't actually have reasons for loving something. if you have reasons for it then usually its not a true one.

where as you start liking something after getting to know completely about it. you weigh its pros and cons, which ultimately results in 'liking' it. you have your reasons for liking something.

so the question which arises now is, if you spend much of your time with something you like will you start loving it? and will that love be strong enough, that you stick to it until your last breath?

or even after giving your life years for something you like, you still want to get back to the thing you love. even if you stay apart for any amount of time will your love never die and stay the same?

tricky questions, will get the answers in due time.

its love vs like and the war is on!!

MOVE ON

when someone leaves you with no answers

filled you with despair and dismay

when the memories you shared haunt you

you are left with nothing to cherish

questions and only questions their name brings along

you have only your loneliness for comfort

when colours just vanish away

and the world appears black and white

trusting someone again is the biggest challenge you face

what if even this relation ends like the previous case

but you gotto collect your broken pieces of heart

and mend your soul

making a point to love yourself first and the most

others will wait if they know your real worth

I know it is easier said than done

But you have to start somewhere, 

you can't just let yourself burn

world is filled with people good and bad

who you encounter is nothing but a random act  

life should never revolve around a single person 

it is to make as many memories and having some  fun

so girl, go back in time and realize how strong you were

don’t give so much power to anyone that they make you or break

find your wings and soar high

coz your tears are too precious to be shed over any  poor soul, 

and its time to say them good bye!

cheers!!

You are..

you are my savior

and my most costliest mistake

my angel in disguise

and my demon

my boon

my curse

my strength

my weakness

you are the reason for my tears
you are the reason of my smile

my best friend

and my most despised enemy

my comfort

my pain

you are my soothing rain of august

and my scorching heat of may

sometimes I want to get rid of you

sometimes I can’t live without  you

in short :-P

you are my reason to live

and my reason to die for..( pun intended )

[p.s- this is a work of fiction :-| ]

lost, confused, weak, dumb?

what to do?

where to begin?

why am I  lost?

so many questions..

have answers,

yet I feel so lost.

loosing myself,

slowly, bit by bit

I am stuck,

everything around me suffocates.

big puzzle,

can’t see clear, no more.

positivity is out,

way out through the front door.

nothing makes sense,

not even this very sentence.

ups and downs

highs and lows

leaves you battered and torn

is this race against time?

does time matter at all?

everyone’s interested in proof!

prove yourself before you desire.

how to know if I am deserving or not?

who can be sure till when to carry on?

when’s the right time to give up?

what we lose will it matter?

what we gain, how long will that matter?

is it a ride, a game or just some gamble.

dreams? what if dreams become nightmare.

do you still believe in your dreams?

shades of grey,

at times black, white is out of sight.

mad race

too many views, too many opinions

these just engulf all rights and all wrongs.

no light to guide

no rays of hope

when you start doubting yourself,

nothing makes sense

nothing

even  ‘nothing’ has no sense attached.

stuck

deep, deep in this trap

some call it life!

few act as if they are living,

few live their act.

random things keep occurring

and we search for happiness in this randomness!

happiness?

mere absence of pain ain’t happiness,

sometimes we get too numb to feel pain

that doesn’t imply being happy.

peace of mind is all that needed

size of that piece isn’t of much importance.

social?

doesn’t make sense

what use is of a smile,

stretching from one cheek to other

when there’s only venom in your soul.

stuck, lost

fallen

but wait

no one’s coming to save you,

you alone are your savior.

all are busy struggling with their life,

as you are equally messed up in yours.

world belongs to self made people.

people who have faith in themselves,

more than in any god.

no miracle potion, no enchanting mantra

can help you out.

you

and only you can save your ass.

take control.

cheers!

clearing my misconceptions!

I’m too lazy to write this, but let’s get on with it.

I have been having few misconceptions, time to clear them up.

• 1.GOD WILL MAKE THINGS RIGHT

So my mom says keep praying, things will turn out good. The only thing you can do when things are out of your hand is to pray to god. I just wonder how is that going to change the things, how does this act of mine has effect on the things already done? How is god going to intervene and make things right, when I very well know I have lost the battle. What powers does prayer has? At the most, it can only calm me down, giving a false relief that I am continuing my efforts and not just sitting idle.

Huh. From childhood I have been told that god is watching us. Do good things and god will reward your work; if you do wrong god will punish you. He will make things right at end; he is always by your side guiding you, looking upon you. I no longer believe in this idea, it does not make any sense to me now.

Nothings happens on its own, even the earth has to rotate on its axis for the days and night to occur. So you work - you get result. If you do not work for things you want, leaving everything on god will only disappoint you in the end. And what is done is done, nothing can change the effects of the things done in past. Your future depends on the work you do, only you can live your life, god can’t do that for you. 
Things don't happen to you just because god has decided it for you. Life is just a collection of random happenings, nothing is decided before hand by any super being.

And one more stupid thing I hear about god is that if we behave accordingly, as the rules laid down by god we will have a happy after life. Seriously?? When we are not sure about being alive the very next day, how can someone guarantee about things happening to us after we die. Doesn't make sense to me.

Between science and god none has emerged a winner. Science has not been successful to explain all theories concerned with this life and universe. Equally theories about god haven't proved anything with substantial evidence . So that leaves us with something out there is in this world which we are unaware of. And mind you this thing doesn't grant you any wishes or doesn't do any favors if you recite few difficult verses or if you fast for a whole month.

But something does exist, beyond our knowledge. We are yet to know that.

•     2.OTHERS HAD IT EASY!

Even I am tempted to believe this most of the times. That I am the one struggling and having a hard way to get things I want from life. Whereas the other people I know, had things easy. They got everything they needed at the exact time of their want. They didn't have to wait or face any sort of disappointments. But this is not true. We all have our own struggles and we are so deeply messed up with our stuff that we take it for granted that other people are having a easy way compared to us.

Not everyone shares his or her struggle. Even the people around me may not know that at this very moment I am fighting the biggest battle of my life. Just because I keep a smiling face, they might think everything is going fine with me. That isn't the case though.

And coming to reaching the goals at different time. I have no answer for that. but I do know that none had it easy. Each one of us had to pay a price for the things they desired.

• 3. GIRLS AND BOYS ARE EQUAL.

Girls are not inferior to guys neither are they superior.  So we are left with the equality function. That is not the case though. Girls and boys are not equal; its same as saying an orange is equal to an apple. We know it is not true. Both taste differently, neither are they equal nor is there anything as superiority or inferiority among them. Same thing goes with gender too, I think gender is something we should stop comparing and competing, both men and woman are unique and equally important. But a man is a man and a woman a woman. They cannot switch places to prove that they are equal to each other. Isn't possible physically or physiologically too. (I am speaking about the major portion of population here leaving out the few exceptional cases).

• 4.       LOVE HAS NO BOUNDARIES!

‘Love is blind’, love has no boundaries etc.  All this occur at the will of the person concerned. You cannot generalize this statement. I do not want to get deep into this. But this statement doesn't hold good, at least for a greater percentage of population of India, where we are very much concerned about the religion, caste creed things to name few. True love actually doesn't have any boundaries. But many people aren't aware of true love.

• 5.       LOOKS DO NOT MATTER!

Well looks do matter. I don’t feel good about myself after gaining 10kg of weight. I was much more confident and active when I was healthier. Weight brings along laziness and a feeling of insecurity. Can go very deep into this discussion, but it will be a very silly one. Cause even our commonsense says that looks do matter, to what percentage that varies from person to person.

• 6.       FRIENDS ALWAYS WANT OUR GOOD.

This statement is true but it is incomplete. Friends always want our good but not better than them. We want our friends to be happy and achieve all the success they deserve. But the moment they overtake us, that uneasy feeling creeps in, which creates a distance. it happens as our levels get changed, the comfort level also changes. The connection once shared starts varying off.  This happens usually, excluding the relationship with best friends though.

• 7.       FEAR

This one is not my own, I read it somewhere. It goes as, ”danger is very well real, but fear is a choice.” fear is an illusion, it’s something created by our mind. It is a result of our thoughts. It actually cripples us, makes us less efficient in facing the situation at hand. It needs a lot of training for our brain to realize this fact. But once we do, then there is no looking back. There will not be anything pulling you back or keeping you off from the things you always wanted to do.

• 8.       FAILURE

There is winning and there is losing, but there isn't a thing called failure. No one is a failure. It’s just that we all reach our destination at different times, few very early, few late but that doesn't mean we have failed in our journey.

• 9. KARMA SETS THINGS EVEN

No it doesn't. Its all bullshit. Life isn't fair and karma doesn't play any role in setting things straight. Not many get what they deserve. Most of the people at fault don't get punished and there are many who suffer for no fault of theirs. You can't expect the life to be fair to you because you have played a fair game all along. Its a losing battle, to expect or predict how things will turn shape.
Not everything makes sense in this world. And most of the times every action doesn't have any equal and opposite reaction, that hold good only in science labs or with any mechanical device but not to human life.

• 10. RIGHT AND WRONG

There isn't any right or wrong way of leading life or doing any trivial thing for that matter. Those are just opinions of the majority and majority doesn't automatically approve it to be right way.

Most of the times we find it easy following the crowd or doing the things what others are doing or have already done. As we are social animals and we live in a society we get bound by all these rules and norms. For the fact unless we don't intrude into others privacy and do not cause any harm directly or indirectly, what we do with our lives shouldn't matter to any other person except us.