Forward Messages. Part II ;)

Very common.

Blah blah blah gud mrning...
Blah blah blah gud evening...
Blah blah blah gud nyt...


Few emotional, few funny, few sarcastic, few pjs, we come across different types of such forward messages. Even i enjoy reading them.
But sometimes its irksome that people have nothing of their own to share than forwarding those dumb messages!
Well, i do know that it is neither easy to frame such messages on own nor is it simple to type the entire thing using our own fingers! :p So most of us prefer sending stale ready messages than creating something new.

It is pretty ok to share them with someone who is in frequent touch, but it is a dejection to get such forward message from old friends or the new ones, from whom we long to hear something substantial than stupid dumb forward PJs!

Size and content of the messages doesn't really matter unless it is a self framed text! :D
It seriouslly gets you more attention..it does!
It just makes the other person realise that you have more time for them than just forwarding any other message present in your inbox, let it alone be super senti or super funny message.
And at occassions even a small ' hi ' can play the trick. ;)

In case you are the one who like to message just to get over that itchy sensation of your hands then don't strain yourself much,carry on with your forward messages. Your personal message may actually give a stroke to the reader. :p enjoy messaging! :D

And yeah reciprocation to your messages(personal) solely depends on the interest of the person to whom you are sending the message. :P

just don't...

[ for all those who love me! ;) ]





Don't love me for my looks..
I may be ugly someday.

Don't love me for my riches..
Everything may turn into rags someday.

Don't love me for my fame..
I may be unknown someday.

Don't love me because i love you..
I may have another say someday.

Love me only when you have enough love to share..
Which may keep you going even if life parts our way!!

let free...

Suicide

Very disturbing word it is indeed… what actually drives people to such an extreme step?? I don’t really know! But I have found through electronic media, people talking about how happy they will be if their life just ends, hoping it will put an end to their problems and grievances. Well such thoughts creep up in the mind of many people at least once, at some point of life.

So is it really necessary for us to end our life as a solution to our problems??

The present competitive educational system has lead many young students to commit suicide just for not faring well in one among the many tests they are put through! And such news spreads like wild fire, mostly favored by our booming electronic media. And there’s a blaming game between the child’s parents and these profit centered educational institute. Soon this becomes a hot news among all the college students, victim’s relatives, in the neighborhood..

The marks which could have been known to just few people are now known to people who were no-where related to that poor kid. Just to escape from little shame, that teenager unfortunately brings shame to the entire family and his innocent past memories.

Same case with love failures, giving up their lives just messes up everything.

Family, financial conditions are some of the few reasons pushing many to this critical decision. But just give a thought that when we are dare enough to face death, which happens to be the ultimate thing any living form can experience, what is it like to face these petty materialistic problems?? Cake walk! Aint it??

Let us think you are really determined to end your life, then why can’t you put the same determination in making a new beginning?? You always have the option of resorting to that extreme step when all your attempts drastically fail. Move to new surroundings, make a new start, lead a life you desire…coz only man has got the finest boon of doing things he want himself, and also making other living forms to follow his instructions.

Death is unavoidable and definite for each living form that is born. But we aren’t sure of life. None can guarantee of life after death. So why to waste this precious opportunity we are blessed with, just because of few unworthy people or some useless situations.

Start living for yourself, there is no need for us to prove ourselves to anyone.

HAPPY LIVING! :)

never before

Never before

Never before I felt this way

Never before I gained loads without any pay.

Never before did I see the whole world in just two eyes

Never before did I know that angels descend in disguise.

Never before I enjoyed any pain

Never before it was fun going insane.

Never before I feared if my life is short

Never before I realized the value of time plot.

Never before I was comfortable in speaking not truth but lies

Never before was I longing for someone, an emotion which never dies.

Never before did I know my life wasn’t only my own

Never before I came across such price less thing, none of the richest can loan.

Never before I knew the magic just the presence of someone brought

Never before absence of anyone turned even the monsoon into draught.

Never before was I ready to give off my life.

Never before it mattered to take on any strife.

Never before did I love anyone more than me..

Never before..

Ever before..

Did I realize that ‘YOU’ and ‘ME’

is ‘I’ but not ‘WE’

And let me tell, this is the best way I found to be...

UNIQUELY COMMON

uniquely common....

That is what I am. That is what actually everyone is. Some of us have an impression that we are just too common. Some think they are absolutely unique. Both of which aren’t facts.

Since ages I used to think that I am just very common. Lately I reckon that I am unique. Finally now I realize that I am commonly unique or say uniquely common...

I am not irreplaceable, none actually is. You can find many who can do what all I do. They might be even better than me. And may be even I am capable of replacing someone else. So this whole thing makes all of us common.

But you can only replace someone but can’t completely fill up the vacuum left by them. Some things we share only with few. Feelings, compatibility, rapport, frequency, affinity etc very from person to person, making each one of us unique.

Wondering why I am messing up with this topic??

I always had this fear that my friends may forget me if they find someone else like me. Or may be someday my sister will take over my position in my family. These things may very well be true. But now I make out that we all are replaceable (be happy unless you and your boss are replaceable you will not be promoted)... replaceable only at few dimensions of life. You cannot be unique to your working arena, similarly even when you are the common family post of say husband you are still unique to your wife. Irreplaceable at least to her hopefully :p

So now I know that I have my own uniqueness in my family and in my friends circle. And I’ll not be sad if someday my sis occupies my space or if my friends share similar vibrancy with someone else. Because I know such things will happen only in my absence and its better to be replaced than forcing our loved ones to live in the vacuum left by us...However unique that emptiness may be..

FORWARD MESSAGE!!

You got a mail.....

“Hey check this out
don't laugh at this! Just do it!

You have just been visited by Dr.Suess's Cat in the Hat. He will grant
you one wish.
Make your wish when the count down is over.

10..

9..

8..
.
.
.
3 ..
...

2.
1..

MAKE A WISH

Send this to 10 people within the hour you read this.
If you do, your wish will come true! . If you don't it will become just the opposite”

I usually delete such mails even without going till its end. But this time I thought let me give it a try!!

I closed my eyes…

Made 3 wishes (I was supposed to make only one)…

Anyways here goes my wish list.

1. . Let there be no college the next day.
2. . Let people stop forwarding such crap messages.
3. Fulfill all the above wishes even if I don’t forward this message to anyone.

I counted till 10…then slowly opened my eyes.

I had to wait for another 24hrs to find out if that message really worked.

I didn’t have even cinch of hope that this whole thing meant any sense.

It totally went off my mind.

The next morning…

My cell phone beeped.

There was a sms from my friend. Which read..

“no colg 2day! :)”

Whoa! That one was least expected!

Oh my GOD! I bet that thing actually worked!!

So let’s check out my wish list..

1. No college the next day – fulfilled :)

2. We will look at the 3^rd one before we go to 2^nd wish.

3. Fulfill my wishes even if I don’t forward this message to anyone – fulfilled :)

(great the wishes are granted even if we don’t complete all the formalities ;) )

2. Stop such forward messages - ??!! Damn I don’t want this to stop when it’s

actually working!

So what am I to do to get such messages again?

I forwarded that message to my entire friends list. Adding an important note in the

start.

Important note:

This really worked for me. Check it out. But first forward this message to me.

Haha… finally I was successful.

The same message started pouring in my mail box!

Meanwhile I happened to cancel out two of my own wishes.

I forwarded that message to whole of my gang and my mail box was flooding with that previously called CRAP message.

But I was happy that at least my first wish still lay intact. And that I was at home enjoying my holiday.

My cell phone beeped..

This time again it was a sms from my friend. Which read :

‘it wasn’t a holiday 2day..der was a wrong info passed..v al lost our attendance..sorry yaar’

Huh!! You really expect anything after this!!!??

Happy Times..

Phase change...

So we have this plan of making a family trip to RFC the next morning and I am still sitting before the system till early morning 2!!..doing nothing or say doing everything to escape from tomorrow’s trip. I wanted to visit that place since years and it was always the family trip that was planned. I was very much ok with it, in fact I was excited to the core. But when finally the time has come I am behaving so indifferent. I admit our family is going to have great time there, but lately I have been used to roaming about just with friends and even now I picture myself having fun with my friends at that very same RFC..[I am sick of thinking so!]


Strange how our priorities change without our knowledge right. Earlier the whole world used to revolve only around two people..MOM and DAD! But now they are the last option we are left with when our friends drop out at the final moment from any plan. Though this isn’t strictly a case with me, but I’ve few friends who usually face such circumstances.
With age the bonding with our family weakens and we get more attached with folks of our age i.e. our friends. Sharing everything..from the tiniest to the most grim matters with them. Mean while we don’t bother to realize that the family that loved us as a child still holds the same love and concern for us. Your mom still hopes that you will go over to her and share your day’s happenings as you used to do when you were a school kid, but all that she sees is that as soon as you get back from your college or hostel you stick to that mobile or system of yours sharing your thoughts not with the person just in front of you but with someone somewhere far who too is in the same scenario as you are..


But I guess this entire fad is part of growing up. Even our granny may feel dejected that our mom/dad is taking out more time for their children rather than for their parents. So this feeling is very common to each of us and we experience it in hell different ways at some point or the other. I don’t say that we shouldn’t trek around with our buddies (or with our individual families when we speak about parents). It’s just that there is no harm if at times we hang around with our mom and dad, making them a part of our fun or else we becoming a part of their happy moments which they have been waiting for quite a long time [family gatherings they call]


Guess it’s easy to say all this but tricky to pull off. Because whenever we are with our parents or say elders they cannot actually stop complaining or advising us. And if you are ready to call that entertaining then BRAVO!! you are the kid every parent of a teenager would appreciate to have.
For rest of the kids like me I deduce even the parents have to put in some effort. Like how about they travel back in time to their teenage period. That sounds cool, doesn’t it!?? It will be easy for them to match up with our frequencies then. We can very well feel comfortable in their company. Logically it’s easy to relive the past than envision the future. Genuinely we can’t understand the elders but they can easily understand us as they too have been through our phase some time back. Anyways that option is left with parents. We can’t actually compel that on them. (If done so it may certainly give way to some new misunderstanding.) But the effort has to be made from both sides. Sometimes more by them and sometimes less by us. ;) What matters at the end of the day is that we are part of each others blissful moments and all that we want is a happy family!!